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Oct. 18th, 2014 02:42 amHad a bit of a lonely fit tonight, so I decided to try random chat in hopes of some kind of conversation or connection. Funny thing is that most people who do that seemed to be horny guys who are looking to hook up with a girl. Every conversation began with the question "male or female?" with my response of male automatically meaning the person would leave.
It was just frustrating I guess. Does it matter so much that the person behind the screen has to be a specific gender? Well I guess it does if you're trying to hook up, but is that what everyone is trying to do?
Just for fun, I put female as my answer and I watched as the person on the other side work his magic. He started off by pretending to care about how my day was before suggesting that we trade phone numbers to get to know each other better. I left the room after that, realizing that this crap is what most girls have to deal with.
To tell truth I wasn't expecting much, but what I encountered bothered me. Maybe random chat isn't exactly the right venue to find a decent conversation. But where else can you go when it's 2:30 AM in the morning?
Ever since Annie and the rest of my friends left, I haven't had anyone to talk to or hang out with in a long time, and it's finally getting to me.
I want to feel like I'm connected to this world again.
It was just frustrating I guess. Does it matter so much that the person behind the screen has to be a specific gender? Well I guess it does if you're trying to hook up, but is that what everyone is trying to do?
Just for fun, I put female as my answer and I watched as the person on the other side work his magic. He started off by pretending to care about how my day was before suggesting that we trade phone numbers to get to know each other better. I left the room after that, realizing that this crap is what most girls have to deal with.
To tell truth I wasn't expecting much, but what I encountered bothered me. Maybe random chat isn't exactly the right venue to find a decent conversation. But where else can you go when it's 2:30 AM in the morning?
Ever since Annie and the rest of my friends left, I haven't had anyone to talk to or hang out with in a long time, and it's finally getting to me.
I want to feel like I'm connected to this world again.
